A Couple Who Asked: What if We Didn’t Call All the Shots?

What We Did

The Marklyns were clear from the start: they didn’t want to replicate the top-down power dynamics of traditional philanthropy. They envisioned a model that would center racial and gender equity — and require them to step back from decision-making entirely. With Phīla’s guidance, they brought that vision to life.

Together, we helped clarify their values and co-designed The Share Fund, a flexible vehicle for giving that allowed for funding nonprofits, individuals, political campaigns, and for-profit businesses— all outside the constraints of a private foundation or conventional DAF. From there, we led an extensive community-informed recruitment process to assemble a diverse Design Group of BIPOC leaders across Washington state. The Marklyns were intentionally not involved in the selection process, signaling their trust and commitment to a power-shifting model.

Once the Design Group was formed, we facilitated the entire process: managing logistics, supporting relationship-building, and creating a structure that allowed for transparency, accountability, and full participation. We brought in an outside facilitator, helped shape early discussions on values, stipends, and conflict of interest, and supported the group in developing a grantmaking process that was low-barrier, trust-based, and community-led. The final result: 17 organizations selected for unrestricted general operating grants, along with an additional Opportunity Fund designed to support the well-being of each grantee’s team — all without a formal application process. Read more about participatory grantmaking and how The Share Fund has evolved by downloading the Share Fund Report.

The Outcome

The Share Fund’s first cycle redistributed $500,000 in a trust-based, participatory process that centered BIPOC leaders and grassroots efforts across Washington. The Marklyns found deep meaning in relinquishing control and building a model that reflected their values — one that could grow and adapt in future years. The process also became a national example of how family philanthropy can authentically center community and equity.

At Phīla, our commitment to creating effective, streamlined, and purpose-driven charitable solutions is not only a testament to our expertise but also a reflection of our dedication to ensuring our clients’ legacies leave a lasting, meaningful impact.