Soaking up naturing on our morning hike in the Snoqualmie National Forest
Stephanie: A highlight of the year for me was our team retreat in the mountains. It was amazing how productive we were AND how much fun we had! It was also a special moment for me as I pushed myself to be a bit less of the “striver” and more centered in gratitude this year. Spending two full days with this incredibly smart group of people drove home just how special this group is to me. The amount of absolute trust and care we have for each other is a true gift– we’ve all had the opposite experience in professional environments. I’ll end this reflection by saying that I’m proud of myself for having a good eye for talent! ;)
My hopes for 2024 are grounded in activity. I hope that my fellow Americans become active and energized to fully participate in our (fragile) democracy. We will no doubt continue to experience the stress that results from the violence and divisiveness sown from politics and media, but I hope that we can also appreciate how important it is for all of us to take our rights and privileges seriously. As Joni Mitchell sang “you don’t know what you’ve got ’til it’s gone”.
My husband Michael and I with our haul of greenery
Tara: As we bid farewell to 2023, I can't help but reflect on the unexpected highlight that became a source of joy and solace – gardening. What started as a simple attempt to bring some greenery into my life evolved into a flourishing passion for growing my own produce. This year, the garden became my sanctuary, a place where the stresses of the world (especially law school!) melted away amidst the vibrant hues of blooming flowers and the fresh aroma of herbs. Harvesting tomatoes, peppers, and herbs straight from the backyard added a sense of accomplishment and a connection to nature that I didn't realize was missing.
As we step into 2024, my hopes are rooted in the continuation of this journey. The simple act of tending to plants has been grounding and taught me patience, resilience, and love for our earth and environment. I now have a growing interest in environmental justice, the importance of community gardens and teaching our community how to grow food. Here's to a 2024 filled with more growth, both in the garden and in our lives! New favorite color: green!
Halloween with my son in his horrible costume. But I’m still smiling!
Lauren: I have a good friend who talks about “keeping to your hula hoop” or controlling what you can and letting go of (sometimes even delighting in!) the rest. As someone who definitely prefers order to chaos, I’ve tried to remember my friend’s wise words this year. In this picture, you’ll see my younger son and me on Halloween a few months ago. When he picked out this revolting costume (he’s seven), I could have refused to let him wear it. Instead, I took a breath, recognized that he was sending me a message about who he wanted to be in that moment, and realized it was my role to accept it whole heartedly.
How does this resolution to explore and embrace the unexpected translate in my work at Phīla? It’s enabled me to be more open-minded about opportunities, as well as the intentions of our clients. Over the summer, my colleague Sewheat Asfaha read a letter to the editor in the Chronicle of Philanthropy that led us to respond with our own op-ed. I took on more opportunities to speak up in professional forums about the role of philanthropy and the responsibilities of donors. Finally, I’ve deeply enjoyed working with our amazing clients, who challenge my assumptions and stretch my thinking about what’s possible in philanthropy each and every day. I wish everyone in our Phīla community a restful and restorative break. I cannot wait to start up again in the New Year!
Enjoying some delicious phở in Hanoi, Vietnam
Sonia Nussbaum, our NEW Intern! 2023 was a year of large–but exciting–transitions for me. I am fortunate to share that I graduated from college in May, earning a B.S.P.A. in Nonprofit Management and Leadership. In October I was extended an opportunity to work alongside the tremendous women here at Phīla Engaged Giving. This position is the first of what I hope will be many in the philanthropic sector as I am incredibly passionate about the positive outcomes it can have on our society. That being said, I've heard that if you work hard you have to play hard too. So, in the time between completing college and finding employment, I spent four months traveling in Southeast Asia and Australia. Between visits to elephant and koala rescues, never ending street food, and conversations with strangers who quickly turned into travel companions, I truly had the trip of a lifetime. Upon returning to the U.S., I moved to Chicago, branching out from my east coast roots. This year I am looking forward to building community in my new home and continuing to develop the skills to support those engaging in philanthropy. Wishing you all love and happiness in 2024. It's all up from here!
Delighting in the charming seaside village of Cowichan Bay, Canada
Sofia: 2023 arrived with the launch of my philanthropy advising practice, and I soon joined this amazing team at Phila. My new colleagues motivate me every day through their combined brilliance and care, and I feel so lucky to work alongside them. My themes this year: creativity and wellness. From January through April, I engaged in an Artist’s Way workshop. I’m still writing daily morning pages and taking myself out for weekly artistic adventures. Last summer, my partner John and I spent an enchanting week on Vancouver Island. I also took a month-long break from technology and wrote about the experience.
I arrive at this year’s end grateful for my clients and the joyful variety of my work – from guiding family giving and governance to fostering donor collaboration aimed at reimagining capitalism. Moving forward, I am bringing a mindset of abundance into 2024, celebrating my family, my teachers, and the glorious calm that can be found under the blanket of winter.
Me and the weeds
Claudia: My 2023 highlight was continuing to find opportunities to connect with my community. In my photo I am crouched in front of a pile of weeds pulled by a group of Earth Gay volunteers. Earth Gay is an inclusive celebration of the Earth, this particular event took place at Burien, Washington’s Salmon Creek Ravine. As a volunteer I helped with litter pick up and weeding followed by a nature walk and bird sit.I’m optimistic about 2024. My head and heart are full of all sorts of plans and hopes, but as I’m writing this, I’m most looking forward to the simple things. I’m looking forward to seeing how the sun hits my yard in the summer. I’m looking forward to finding the perfect dining table for the house I moved into this year. I’m looking forward to filling the pages of my sketchbooks.
Me, deep at work. I was VERY into finding the perfect match of scents for 2023!
Janell: To celebrate my birthday this year my partner and I embarked on a scented escapade at a candle-making bar in Seattle. The moment we stepped through the door the tantalizing aroma enveloped us. The walls, adorned in a tapestry of scented oils, drew us in. Before the candle-making journey began, we were tasked with the seemingly impossible mission of choosing just a handful of scents. The selection processes demanded an unexpected level of focus, thought, and care. I approached the task with meticulous attention. A drop of this, two drops of that—I engaged in a delicate dance until I discovered the perfect harmony of scents that made my heart sing. This “wax alchemy” of sorts served as a metaphor for the journey that encapsulated 2023. It was a year of embracing all of the various “drops of life” that define our humanity— relief when your child overcomes a crisis, grieving the departure of a loved one, navigating the delicate balance between ego and insecurity, the ebb and flow of weight loss and gain, and finding precious moments for self-care amid the overwhelming noise and chaos in our world.
Throughout this transformative year, I embraced pauses and extended more space and grace to those in my orbit—loved ones, friends, colleagues, and clients. As I look toward 2024, I’m grateful for the kaleidoscope of experiences that shaped my journey and look forward to what the future holds. Cheers to navigating life’s intricate fragrances!