Man reading a book on a bench overlooking the sea. Image by Ben White
By Lauren Janus and Janell Turner
We have a semi-regular tradition each June at Phīla. As a team of readers, we like to take time out at the start of the summer season to share some of the books we’ve read recently that we deem significantly thoughtful, but also beach read worthy. It is summer, afterall!
In June of 2020, we were deep into the reality of a global pandemic, while only weeks away from the murder of George Floyd. Our blog post then was called Summer Reads for the Times and included several of Lauren’s picks for books on racial equity in America. In 2021, we all needed a lift, so our picks focused on diverse, inspiring stories. We called that post Summer Reads that Celebrate Humanity. And in 2022, we were just too busy and didn’t get a book post out. Sorry friends!
This summer, we are back in the reading saddle so much that two of us (Janell and Lauren here) wanted to share our suggestions for your warm weather reading. As we talked about the books that have moved us in the last year, a clear theme emerged: one of challenging assumptions to build empathy for those climbing their own mountains. In that vein, we are pleased to present Phīla Book Picks for Summer 2023.
Nonfiction
Hidden Valley Road: Inside the Mind of an American Family by Robert Kolker (Janell)
This story resonated deeply with me as it struck a chord with my own experience. Witnessing my younger brother’s journey as he developed schizophrenia in his early twenties, after showing immense potential in his writing and spoken word career, has been both heartbreaking and eye-opening. Kolker’s portrayal of the Galvin family’s struggles evoked profound emotions and reflections, reminding us of the remarkable power of family connections and the resilience that can illuminate even the most challenging circumstances. Through meticulous research and vivid storytelling, he gently peels back the layers of mental illness within the Galvin family and skillfully humanizes the complex world of mental health, offering a compassionate lens into the challenges faced by both individuals and loved ones. A compelling read for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the human experience within mental health.
The Myth of the Silver Spoon; Navigating Family Wealth and Creating an Impactful Life by Kristin Keffeler (Lauren)
This spring, our entire team read Kristin Keffeler’s thought-provoking dive into the often unexpected challenges and struggles of those living with wealth. Keffeler comes from a wealthy family herself, and uses her background in psychology and lived experience to coach primarily younger people who grew up surrounded by the opportunities–and expectations–that often come with an outsized inheritance.
Through stories and insights on brain development, Keffeler paints an empathetic picture of ultra high-net wealth families. She tells of children who grow up unintentionally coddled, only to be pushed out into the world with the assumption that they’ll behave exactly like the high achieving family members that came before them. As one could imagine, these sorts of expectations can lead to high levels of depression, despair and emotionally fraught relationships. Thankfully, Keffleler also offers plenty of evidence-based advice on “clearing the emotional clutter” and finding purpose for those for whom money has always been a given.
Cutting School; The Segrenomics of American Education by Noliwe Rooks (Lauren)
As the parent of two elementary school-aged children, I think a lot about education…what it can mean to different types of children, how to support teachers, and how our system of education in the US often too fails children of color, those with disabilities and the poor. That’s why I devoured Noliwe Rooks’ book on what remains a segregated school system in America, where Black and Brown children’s educations often become opportunities for “businesses to make a profit selling schooling.” If you read it, please let me know what you think, especially of the chapter, “White Philanthropy, Black Education.” We’ll get coffee and talk about it.
The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker (Janell)
This book drew me in from the very first page and inspired immediate action. It’s like having a secret weapon in your pocket as a host, event planner, professional advisor, or anyone who is looking to create unique, memorable experiences with friends and loved ones. Parker's insights are pure gold as she dives into the nitty-gritty of creating gatherings that truly matter. She goes far beyond the usual logistics and shows us how to create authentic connections that leave a lasting impact. I can't stress enough how much I appreciate her emphasis on being intentional, inclusive, and purposeful in how we bring people together. Plus, she brings everything to life with interesting real-life examples that make you go, "Aha! I can do that!" This book is a game-changer for anyone who wants to bring people together, spark action, and strengthen our communities. You don't need to be a fancy party planner to get something out of it. It's a must-read!
Fiction
The Love Songs of W.E.B. Du Bois by Honoree Fanonne Jeffers (Janell)
This book has claimed the top spot in my women's book club, emerging as the standout read of the year. It swept me away, gently whisking me back to my cherished southern roots. Within its 800+ pages, we discovered a treasury of vibrant prose that pays homage to the teachings and literary legacy of W.E.B. Du Bois. Jeffers skillfully weaves together a tale of familial bonds, love's enduring power, unwavering resilience, and the pursuit of identity—a narrative that captivates and draws you closer with each turn of the page. As the story unfolds, she breathes life into history's forgotten corridors, taking us on an unforgettable journey through time, unraveling the multi-generational saga of a fictional Black family in the heart of Georgia. Veronica Chambers, in her review for the New York Times Book Review, astutely observes, "The historical archives of Black Americans are too often filled with broad outlines of what happened—accounts of injustice, enslavement and oppression—and not the details of how Black people lived and breathed, thought, wondered, wandered, dreamed, and prayed." Jeffers fills this void with unmatched finesse, transporting us into a world where the vibrancy of Black lives pulsates on every page.
Have a wonderful summer!